Why do women marry men for money, and not because they truly want to be with someone that makes them happy!!!???!?!?!?!?!?!?
Now I know that I am a woman, and I shouldn't be asking this, but why!!!!????? Why can't women marry for good reasons like, "He's my best friend", or "We Truly love each other", or "We have so much in common". Why does it have to be about bank roll, or the size of the house, or what kind of car, or all of the above, when none of those asking for those things in a man have those things themselves!! Im a hard working woman, Ive earned everything that I have. I have two jobs, and Im in school! And I deal with the stress that comes along with it! I prefer having an ambitious, hardworking, good looking, good man that treats me like a queen man any day! I have always felt that a successful man wants and deserves a successful woman and vice versa. But whats up with all the unsuccessful, dont want nothing out of life for themselvs besides a dude with bank and a big d***, girls(and I use the term girls because thats not what a real womens mentality is) out here?!! What happened to the womens movement of the 1920's where women wanted to be treated equal to men, and given the same respect. What ever happened to the women that wanted more for themselves, that wanted to work and make big money on their own. Not be handed everything. What the hell happened??!! Can some help me understand this s***!!!
I know I have some racy pics up, there not the kind you find on Playboy, or Hustler, or even hush!! I take pride in my body, I work out three times a week....now I can't say that my diet is perfect, but hey....I have a fast metabolism.....for now anyway, lol! Atleast when I lose my figure and I have 2 kids, working all the time, I'll be able to say "Hey, I looked good in my twenties!
I know I have some racy pics up, there not the kind you find on Playboy, or Hustler, or even hush!! I take pride in my body, I work out three times a week....now I can't say that my diet is perfect, but hey....I have a fast metabolism.....for now anyway, lol! Atleast when I lose my figure and I have 2 kids, working all the time, I'll be able to say "Hey, I looked good in my twenties!
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Permalink Reply by Niguhdeyluv2hate on -
because they grow up believing in fairytale life because of their moms most parents censor reality.
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Permalink Reply by Bella Nightingale on -
Your right! The parents aren't teaching their kids right!! Good point!
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Permalink Reply by ♬ G Unit Kimmie ♬ @LuvMiHaterzzz on -
its called golddiggers girl ..
personally i'd rather be with a poor man who can make me laugh ..
knows how to rub me right ..
and give me good love before we turn out the lights ..
than a man with money who just wants to give me money
and leave me all by myself all the time ..
so many women are all caught up in wantin men for their money
i think they forget what its supposed to be all about ..
for real !
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Permalink Reply by ♬ G Unit Kimmie ♬ @LuvMiHaterzzz on
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props to u on startin this .. and u know i think its ok to feel the way we do ..
not all women are golddiggin women ..
and not all of us are that shallow !
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Permalink Reply by Bella Nightingale on
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That is true!! Too many golddiggers out here! But why gold dig!? Its one thing to go digging for your own in this mine we call life, but its another to go after someone elses paper!! To me thats just disgusting to not want your own.
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Permalink Reply by ♬ G Unit Kimmie ♬ @LuvMiHaterzzz on
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i feel u there..
like i said i'd trade a man who knows how to treat a woman right ..
give her love n attention over money anyday !
i was engaged to a man who gave me a 50,000 vehicle as an engagement present
i went from being a strugglin single mom in a small apt
to havin anything i wanted ..
and a huge home ..
i left him anyway ....
cause his answer to everything was for me to go shopping..
what do u want - he would say .. like material things would take the place of good love....
dam all i wanted was his attention ..
not his money !
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Permalink Reply by Oldskoolgirl on -
I agree, those are golddiggers, not all women.
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Permalink Reply by Ruga Ruga aka Hannibal Lector on -
ALOT OF GIRLS ARE STRAIGHT UP MATERIALISTIC. I MEAN ITS PROBABLY EASIER FOR A GIRL TO LOVE A DOCTOR WHO UGLY AS F*** BUT MAKES 250K AND GETS HER ALL MATERIALISTIC S*** SHE CAN SHOW OFF TO HER FRIENDS RATHER THAN LOVE A DUDE WHO PAINTS HOUSES FOR A LIVING AND MAKES 20K A YEAR.
ITS SAD TO SAY BUT SOME FEMALES ARE JUST OUT FOR THE MONEY, ITS EASIER TO PRETEND TO LOVE SOMEONE ACTING LIKE ITS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY RATHER THAN PUT UP WITH A RELATIONSHIP WHERE MONEY IS TIGHT, JUST A THOUGHT.
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Permalink Reply by Bella Nightingale on
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True indeed! There are alot of materialistic chicks out here! I rather have the love and companionship than money....cause money's like water, it comes and goes!! Great points!!
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Permalink Reply by Omar-Always winningcharliesheen. on -
There should be more females with your mind set.
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Permalink Reply by elflaks on -
its in a womans DNA.ever since the cavemen,the man has been the provider.the women is gonna go with the man who can provide the best.so for all that independent women ish yall pop,you's still have not evolved as much as yall think!
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Permalink Reply by Bella Nightingale on
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I have to disagree, because Im not like that. And to sterotype all women into the same category, is wrong. Opera didn't depend on a man to give her anything, niether did Tyra Banks. I appreciate your response.
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