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Permalink Reply by kazuuka on March 5, 2009 at 5:48pm

This was a man who sustained burns from serving his country in war and like what marraige in my eyes should be like the show went on because of true love

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Permalink Reply by roshane on March 5, 2009 at 5:56pm

My friend that doesn't really look too happy to me..LoL
Well, sometimes after first period in marriage, it turns out to be not so pleasant
So i wouldn't stick around just because, you never can tell what will happen later on,
then you'll feel like a total blob, so id take away ma self..lol
I'm just saying it as it is.

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Permalink Reply by kazuuka on March 5, 2009 at 6:02pm

Hmmm wasn't marraige supposed to be about in "sickness and in health, for richer for poorer, till death do us part" well at least you admiited you wouldn't stick around it's better you end it then rather than break the silent when it's too late and can potentially cause even more damage

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Permalink Reply by roshane on March 5, 2009 at 6:40pm

Yeah well alot, if not all (since its a normal human tendency) go in it,
to say thats not gonna happen...//[quote]Hmmm wasn't marraige supposed to be about in "sickness and in health, for richer for poorer[/quote]//

How i see it is, people when you say that, before anything strikes, they feel that oh well thats not gonna happen, and sometimes when they are already married, they feel that they are trapped so to speak, in the whole thing, and don't want to let go of that partner, mabe because they fear what other people around them will say, or they just dont want to put 'down' that person, or don't want to feel that
sense of betrayal.

ALSO when you talk about that (sickness and for poor) the reality is already there, and they feel that , thats the way its gonna be, all the time. From the first view of it. Yeah and it all falls down to the individual himself, not everyone can handle things the same as others, what soothes another man, might not soothe another, and they don't know if it soothes them untill, the problem strikes, and thats where divorce comes into play

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Permalink Reply by kazuuka on March 5, 2009 at 6:49pm

Real talks you make some good points only if marraige was a bit more valued it'd save alot of broken families especially black families

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