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Permalink Reply by roshane on August 1, 2009 at 3:27pm

If things are that bad that i can't pay for the food then i probably wont go...i knw selfish right?

I would pay, unless she insists on paying for her food...I am paying for my food.

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Permalink Reply by Abeeyo on August 1, 2009 at 5:57pm

Perhaps the girl pays for herself and they guys pays for himself, compromise 50/50 there is a hurdle over every obstacle ;)

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Permalink Reply by Shantel on August 2, 2009 at 8:45pm

If I ask U out on date then no you dont have to pay unless u want to then be my guest but no. I make my own money and I can handle the bill no problem!

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Permalink Reply by Eileen arpke on August 3, 2009 at 12:30am

Well its always decent that a guy should pay rather than a girl as it is bestowed from the nature above..
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Yes that is a nice idea but have you ever thought of going up to the biggest guy on the subway and telling him your thoughts on this. I wonder what he might do, or would you even do it.

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Permalink Reply by Eileen arpke on August 3, 2009 at 12:31am

Yes that is a nice idea but have you ever thought of going up to the biggest guy on the subway and telling him your thoughts on this. I wonder what he might do, or would you even do it.
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Permalink Reply by MeeeeeeMeeeee on August 3, 2009 at 2:21pm

Well, a girl should never ask a man something like that unless they are either just friends or already in a serious relationship. Any COURTING that's done should be all on the man, and girls shouldn't ask men on "dates". So that's already the first fuckup. And if she asked, then she kind of set herself up to have to at least pay for her own food/drink. However, I am 10000% against females paying for dates. That's not right, and ya'll know it. I don't even open doors on my own, why would I pay for my own food? And no, it's not that whole bitchy "You better cater to me!" attitude that some girls get 'cause they think they're tight or whatever. No. I respect men for being men, but it's a MAN'S job to provide, so, provide my food, because later down the road in a relationship, the woman has plenty of duties. I'll die a violent death before I ever let my man touch a dirty dish, or cook a meal, or not get his back rubbed after work. That's a woman's job, if you can't do it, you're not a real woman. But let men do the man's job, which is to pay for almost everything. It's not about whether or not you make your own money as a woman. Actually, I make almost as much money per year as my man does, but expenses are not equal because it's his duty to provide. Maybe I'm old fashioned but it's better that way for sure.

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Permalink Reply by true fizzy on August 3, 2009 at 11:24pm

lol way to set women back 100 years

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Permalink Reply by true fizzy on August 3, 2009 at 11:24pm

lol yea definitely since women love having everything handed to them. That part might be gay but men win in the long run because we have the balls (figuratively and literally) to go out and get a person we want while women have to wait for the guy to make the first move and the guy they like may never make the first move so they are assed out and have to settle when they could have just asked him out cuz he may be shy around u or something but you f***** it up. so yea sucks we have to pay but always in the long run

being a man>being a woman

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Permalink Reply by Pinky Macc on August 3, 2009 at 11:25pm

if she ask u then yeah she should pay

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Permalink Reply by Delanie on August 4, 2009 at 10:38am

hell yeah u should pay niggas these day wanna be so cheap at least pay for da first date

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