WHERE ARE THE BLACK FATHERS
So today was my daughters first day of school. It was a gang of kids in the school.. and most of them with their parent... yeah thats it ...just mom... there were only about three fathers that had taken their kids to go to school for the first day... and i mean.. just fathers only and the kinds... and maybe .. maybe ten couples( which included me and my lady) that were there with their kids... the rest of them... just kids with their single black moms.... man tell me.. what has gone so wrong in our community... why are men running away from their seeds.
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Permalink Reply by Va Flipp on -
Iam with u bro but there are classes for new dads and also it's not so much as having a father but to have any man around uncle or ect. but fuc wit u son va flipp
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Permalink Reply by kingwilliam on -
good post pimp.. thanks for adding... i feel you
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Permalink Reply by RoyalChi - You Will Bow To Me!!! on -
We right here! I love my baby more than anything. The thing in this world that brings me the most joy is seeing him grow up. I don't know why dudes want to miss that s***. I would never let a woman keep me away from my lil man.
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Permalink Reply by kingwilliam on
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lol.. my man had to smack us in the face with a picture...lol.. hey but best wishes pimp... we all need to become better fathers to our seeds.. and those of us that arent in our kids lives... we need to try and change them... get them involved
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Permalink Reply by Da Grym Reefer on -
Speaking on a personal note. I think that SOME black fathers are running NOT from their seeds but from their BABY's MOTHERS.
Yeah you have your punk ass parents too, but this s*** didn't happen overnight. This is the result of generations and generations of broken homes.
In my personal experience, I love my son but his mother could be lit on fire & I personally wouldn't put her out with the p*** from my dick.
Why?
I'm not one of those ain't s*** niggaz out there but I ended up havin' a child by an ain't s*** ass "woman" (I couldn't use the term more loosely if I tried).
Men have gotten a bad rap since before most of us were born, but nobody points out the FACT that women haven't gotten any easier to get along with either
women haven't gotten any easier to deal with either. Many women today use children as bargaining chips when the relationship sours. They see dollar signs and use kids as a weak point.
Instead of bygones be bygones they'd rather be malicious and adapt that "....Since we're not together I'll make your life hell!" attitude; Especially when a man is fed up.
These so-called "independent women" get their rocks off of trying to make a man feel low and worthless, even if theres no room to talk. Instead of looking at the situation like: "Okay, we aren't together but let's put our all into raising our child(ren) separate but together peacefully. It's too much like right.
I personally have a "baby momma" who's with the drama EVERYDAY.
We're cool Monday through Friday but come Saturday she wants to drop the baby off on me in attempt to anchor me in the house and keep me from "finding another b****" (her words not mines; I don't wan't another b**** myself I'd prefer a woman next time around) after ME keeping our child Monday through Thursday anyway she wants to clown and act an ass convieniently on the weekend.
Women are too emotional, especially when it comes to children. Often time they may have f***** the relationship up themselves but still want to make a n**** suffer anyway.
Watch a court show somtime you'll see it everyday.
In closing there ARE good men out there you are reading the words of one, but not even a good man is going to stick around and deal with B******* that's unproductive and uncalled for.
U have n**** that don't let go and you have some that saying "F*** you, b****! It's all about the
child(ren) now.
Some of these "women" can't take it being over and try to run a n**** off to the point where a n**** say: "You know? Child support doesn't sound that bad anymore."
THAT'S WHERE ALL THE FATHERS ARE; IN CHILD SUPPORT COURT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Permalink Reply by kingwilliam on
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hey man i feel you... and i know exactly what you mean about the babymama drama... i dont go through that s***... and if me and my lady split... i dont think that anything like that would happen.. but to be honest.. i cant say what my future will hold.... there are way way too many women out there... that act like that... and yes that drives men away...
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Permalink Reply by sha on -
Honestly examples, people talk about this but you have a race of men that has an average life span of 69 yrs old and actually have nerve to play the field. 1 out of 9 is incarserated and the down low brothers are dying b/c of no acceptance of gayness in the black community. The high rate of HIV and being twice as unlikely to be unemployed, so how then are they supposed to provide stability and security. lets not forget the medical problems of colon cancer, heart attacks and hypertension. What about all the ones that keep committing suicide(there are so many), and lets not leave out the constant struggle of the paper chase And no matter what type of life a black man has lived by the time he is middle aged half will become homeless. The only reason GOD ever really blesses a man is b/c he knows that he will take care of his family, thats the only reason.
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Permalink Reply by Va Flipp on
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Ahigh % of women do not stick by their man when we need them the most
like when we don't have a job or scared as s*** when u say IAM 2 MONTHS LATE
GIVE US A CHANCE TO GET IT TIGETHER MEN DON'T HANDLE SITUATIONS WELL WHEN THEY JUST SLAP OUR FACE .WE NEED TIME TO MAN UP AND I was one
even though we play the hard roll we are b****** when it comes to a situation where we can't shoot or punch so women and men of all races we need to teach our childern that they should get along and treat women and ourselves better because we have to live in this world together. all my fellow father we will STEP UP FOR UOR KIDS Iknow we will
OBAMA 08 VA FLIPP
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Permalink Reply by RoyalChi - You Will Bow To Me!!! on
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I made my son then married his mother. I'm not recommending that for everyone but I was willing to do whatever it took to make sure I was the 1st face he seen in the morning & there to tuck him in at night. Women need to stop acting like they own the child. The laws is f*** up. You have to prove the mother is a crack head to get full custody. A woman should just let bye gones be bye gones & let the father see his children.
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Permalink Reply by kingwilliam on
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hey man... and even then... you might be able to show a gang of s*** that the woman is doing.. the state still might not grant a man with full custody... you damn near have to prove that the child is going to die if they leave the court room with their mother
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