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Permalink Reply by Duke on July 11, 2008 at 10:50pm

married just to get divorce!!! who you know really spend the rest of they lifes together other than your grandma??????????????? all marrage is just paper-work! got nothing to do with love!!!

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Permalink Reply by smooth tha boss on July 11, 2008 at 10:59pm

cause us niggas are scared of commitment including myself though i know i'll get married eventually but like my favorite comedian earthquake said getting married is like having cable with just one channel same s*** come on everyday lol

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Permalink Reply by Rio 2 Real Blaze on July 12, 2008 at 11:40am

I'ma Tell Why And I Am Dat situation U Talkin About!See Everything Was Cool Until I Started Showin How Smart I'm Really was When Things Wasn't Going Her way And I Told Her Certain Things Was Going To happen/Now She Just Argue To Make Me Be Wrong So She Can Be Right For A Change And She Want Stop> Now I'm @ Da Point I Still F*** With U But I'm Starting To Question Do I Really Want 2 Be With Like Dat To Marry You So I'm Just Going To Keep F***** With Until One Day I Really Just Can't Take It No More And Then I'm Gone That's Why Niggaz Be Wit Chics For A Long Time And Ya'll Be Lookin Like We Been Together 7-8 Why U Can't marry Me!Lol Dat's S*** Is Funny 2 Me U Know Y Cuz If U Was Dat Smart 4Real U Would't Be ASkin Me Dat Question U A Know Dat Da S*** U R Doing Is y I'm Doing Everything Or Reacting 2 U Da Way I Am Which Is Y U Gets No Ring Ya'll Don't Think B4 Ya'll Talk Ya'll Just Say What Sound Good & Ya'll Females Ya'll Built To Talk Our Mf Ears Off Dat;'s y Niggaz Who Talk 2 Much We Call Em' "B******" Get It?But Da Fact U Aint Trippin Off Da S*** U Do Is Y We Argue & U Didn't Need Me To Tell U That All U Gotta Do Is pay Attention And U Can Find This Answer Urself So Now That I Told U Da Deal Do U Really Think I Would Want 2 Marry Someone Like Dat Be 4 Real!! If Da Shoe Was On Da Other Foot Would U ladies Wanna marry A N**** Like Dat F*** Naw & U Know It! So F*** Da 6-7 Years U Workin My Young Ass Nerves!

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Permalink Reply by Hsweetly on July 11, 2008 at 11:19pm

Yall so damn negative. Of course grandparents the only ones you see last 4ever cuz you see them when their old. At our age you wont know it lasted until years and years from now. SORRY ASS EXSCUSES!!!! So what u sayin Duke guys dont get married bcuz they automatically think its gonna end in divorce. Sounds like the problem is GUYS IARE JUST 2 DAMN SCARED

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Permalink Reply by breeze on July 12, 2008 at 11:48am

Its because most women no longer have morals values or loyalty.if u marry them, they end up doin sum foul s*** so u gotta get divorced anyway.

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Permalink Reply by LIBERT on July 12, 2008 at 11:50am

same as you we not ready

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Permalink Reply by blue-g on July 12, 2008 at 11:54am

cuzz a b**** alwayz wanna play some body thin they get mad win we go to a spanesh chicc

blacc girlz dont kno what they have

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Permalink Reply by U SHOULD JACK MY SWAGG!!! on July 12, 2008 at 12:19pm

i think its a 2way thing cuz some dudes still wanna play and some of these women r putting up with the bull s*** i cant speak 4 every male but i love my fiancee 2 death shes my best friend and wouldnt change it for the world i just think niggas and ladys should step up and get what they want

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Permalink Reply by Cant Think Of A Name on July 12, 2008 at 12:20pm

We'll just chalk it to the fact that it's laziness and lack of trying to keep the communication going.
You can't fix a problem if you don't make the person aware there is a problem in the first place.
I keep seeing this s*** dudes just let s*** get a pass and don't nip it in the bud or even communicate on small to important s***.
Not only that there is this double standard that the majority of people f****** up the relationships with black men are the women. When in reality its the men that are f*** ups.
Black dudes love the easy route. It plays out in "career" decisions, relationship decisions, every decision is the easiest route. If s*** comes easy all the time you can't grow as person and you never will.

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Permalink Reply by Hsweetly on July 13, 2008 at 3:38pm

When men get to the point where they just stickin around in the relationship until they get tired they are wasting both his and the girls time. Shouldn't a man just leave instead of dragging it out longer, sometimes for years?

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Permalink Reply by GDC_aka_KinG_SWaGG on July 13, 2008 at 3:48pm

Tha last yr & a half of my relationship wit my baby mama was jus somthin I wasn't feelin. Tha luv had died. Women hav this tendancy 2 believe dat once they ":KNOW" they got u...they can slack on what attracted u n tha 1st place! Plus they change on u...start actin like their miserable mothers! LoL...Real Talk ~GDC~

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Permalink Reply by Hsweetly on July 13, 2008 at 3:52pm

well at least your honest. So if women didn't give it up so easy men would be more willing to get married? I doubt it, they would just keep lookin until they find a woman who will give it up. Men just scared and some have good reason but its out of hand now. I wonder if these men would prefer their kids to get married when they get older

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