
This is just some real talk .. from me..
To all the women ..
who choose to use their children as weapons
and toys against their baby's daddys..
YOU are wrong B**** !
Stop doing it ..
Kids need their mama's and their daddies to be ok..
They need for them to get along and raise them..
Not fight and bicker.. Not carry on and make drama..
They need them to put aside their personal differences..
and raise them ...
Not carry on and fuss n fight every time they see each other..
But to remind them every day that they love them and it's not their fault..
that Mom and Dad aren't together... and that they are fighting...
My kids have shown me..
That even tho kids these days see it more and more..
They still hate when Mom and Dad fight..
Even if mom and dad aren't married..
So...
Ladies.. If you been a B**** to your baby daddy..
. Chill.. Just because YOU can't have him anymore..
doesnt mean u don't owe ur kids some peace in life...
Just because you can't have him or control him anymore..
doesn't mean he doesnt love his kids..
and deserve to be in their life...
Show em love.. Make some good food..
Sit down n have some real talk with your baby's daddy ..
N thank him for being a man and the father of your child.
Then remember how much your child loves his / her father..
and how wrong you are doing your child.
I'm out !
Happy Father's Day Fif..
and all other fathers ...
I hope you are all able to have some quality time with your children today !!
Kimmie
P.S. And to all the men in my life .. who have been the invisible fathers and the uncles and big brothers to my daughter Sammie since her father died... Thank u .. N Much Love... This goes out to you too ... D.. she says ur still her black daddy.. LOL....