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Permalink Reply by tanya on March 31, 2008 at 8:22pm

well im gald u decided to post this question copy and paste my answer if u can i think it was a pretty good response.. i want to know the same thing foto DA Don why are we seemingly the lonley bored ones. ladies help us figure this out...

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Permalink Reply by fam gang 0r d0nt bang 80$$$ on April 3, 2008 at 7:06am

my girl tanya i rilly like you.............

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Permalink Reply by fOtO_Grafz on April 2, 2008 at 5:16am

My Girl Tanya had this to say i dont know,i guess cuase maybe we are the whole package ans alot of guys cant handle that, men seem to want to dog the sexy chicks and venture off the hoodrats, maybe so thye wont gt emotonally attached, im not sure why., but we the ones who get dogged the most. some of the pretties women are thoen who get all the broken hearts look at halle berry for instance janet had to settle with her lil man after she went thgough several guys j lo, i dont know what it is i will tell u this.."we got to be mo careful!" i know i am, i dont hink i really will trust any man, in fact i guess i wan to be like angelina jolie jsut get man hook'emand never worry about a comittment case hsi ass want leave later on. i dotn know foto DA DON.. good question, im still really trying to figure it out, we the ones who get slapped in the face & beat on . u think a man would want to protect the beauty , no they want to break u til u feel like u nothin ;so they can feel better about themselves then when they break u they call u weak ,and now u not good enough for them, when the truth is they were never good enough to handle us, the beauty outside nor the beauty inside and that includes intelligence that's beauyt too. i dont know u tell me. maybe u should starta bog and do a urvey to see what the other chicks have to say.. i think after awhile we just get tired and we are not so quick to trust anymore therefore we just get left being lonely and bored, sometimes i think it's kind of sad some of the most beautiful smat intellgent women catch the most hell and end up lonely or settleing for somebody u would never have guessed, ie j lo, beyonce, at least her man got money , janet and jermaine dupree, who else/ probably even some women u know personally like when u see them broths with a beautiful chick and u wonderin how he hell that happen, well u men oush us to that.. dont u foto DA DAN?... :)

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Permalink Reply by tanya on April 3, 2008 at 12:35am

good job FOTO DA DON i hope some more women respond im really intersted to see what they have to say, on the subject.

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Permalink Reply by fOtO_Grafz on April 3, 2008 at 7:34pm

thanks tanya im feelin the feed back..the answers are very interesting..;)

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Permalink Reply by tanya on April 3, 2008 at 7:59pm

i like that what u said about the company we chose to keep, we just have to be careful about who allow to be around us and the same goes for the topic of discussion i think we ladies have to be more careful about the kind of man we gravitate to and we gotta leave these broke negros alone.. the ones who are broke not only in the pocket( not so much the pocket) that is really about a persons potential and desire) however if he/she broke in his/her spiirit and broke in attiutde and broke integrity, broke in loyalty.. in other words if the persons character is broke and we see that red flag from the begiining we should run with a high rate of giddy up the other direction; because more than likely it's gonna be a situation that isnt gonna go anywhere; lest you end up lonely with valuable time wasted that you never gonna get back. so i think we just need to be more selective and not desperate as females to just accept anything; and start having a false reality that things are gonna get beter or he gonna change if his ass is over the age of 25 and he still has no direction, and he's still out here acting like he in high school i think it is a loss cause and or we will end up lonely sooner or later number one reason why.. cause after awhile we gonna get tired or he is gonna get tired cause you too smart and too motivated for him and his "elevator" gonna be stuck on the 3rd floor where the hoodrat is... something he is familar with, that's what alot of men do.. they leave a good thing to go get with a dang hoodrat the same as he.... is when you are the one trying to be there to show him/help him so he can have the best of everything including a woman. that's why we end up lonely, we gotta stop picking bitchass partners!

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Permalink Reply by ron on April 7, 2008 at 6:51am

^^^^^co-sign...i couldn't put it any better

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Permalink Reply by bayare@b!tch on April 7, 2008 at 8:10am

SIMPLY BECAUSE THE LIFE OF A SEXY LADY BECOMES VERY PREDICTABLE WHEN DEALING WITH MEN, WHEN SHE GO TO THE STORE A DUDE TRY TO HOLLA, WHEN SHE AT THE GYM A DUDE TRY TO HOLLA, WHEN SHE AT WORK A DUDE TRY TO HOLLA, AND GUESS WHAT? THEY ALL SAID THE SAME S***!!!!!!!!!!!!! FELLAZ STEP THAT GAME UP FOR 08 STEP IT UP LIKE IT'S 09~~~~~~

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Permalink Reply by Naslaya on April 7, 2008 at 8:28am

The way I see it is like the Tyler Perry movie "Why did I get married?" Niggas lookin' for 100% and in all reality there is no one woman or man that's 100% the most you getting is 80% from the right chick..... That 20% from that hoodrat be lookin' real temptin' and they go for the 20%..... I also think it depends on where you live because if you live in a boring ass town then you gone stay bored..... I'm one of those females that was dogged when I was young so I can relate but what happened is the tables turned so my game is more like a dudes game so I don't set myself up to be bored..... That s*** is real about money but some women are into their own money and have certain standards we might give a broke n**** a chance every once in a while but how long can anybody deal with broke?????

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Permalink Reply by Slick Vuitton on April 8, 2008 at 9:31am

from a male perspective I think sexy chicks worry about their looks 2much than their personality n sense humor.
conversation starts gettin boring after a few weeks Cos the convo its not flowing, That's why most of them can't keep a man.
The only theme they talk about is make-up, nails, weave, clubs n ex boyfriend (Like we give a s*** about your Ex!!).
some avoid goin out cos theres always a clown tryin to get his mac on (but n**** aint got game)
So they jus stay home Making BOOTY SHAKING VIDEOS 4 YOUTUBE of theirselves unconscious.
there's another things I would like 2 mention about (broke n****) some sexy girls dont realise broke niggaz are the 1s who can show u good time, not literally broke broke but yall know where im goin with this (hood niggaz).

rich niggaz jus wanna buy u gifts, flowers n s*** while hood niggaz like me jus wanna crackin jokes makin ur ass laugh without no money in my pocket. (money won't buy you happiness)

BTW Sick Discussion

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Permalink Reply by Ese on April 8, 2008 at 1:05pm

tanya and drias got ur back..u r so rite..bt jlo is a b**** on her own...she always had no reason to brekup wit d guys....Guys are very stressful....we gals cant even tell wen u reali lik us or nt...dnt even knw if u want us gals to kill ourslves jus to pls u..a guy i knw has so many galfrnd was lik if he c any of his galfrnd wit guys he wld finish dem..bt it ok 4 him as a guy to do dat..can u imagine,,i jus hissed at him..we gals have suffered...4 me a guy cant jus say he luvs me,he has to mean it.....some guys talks alot of tash wen tlkin to gals tinkin d r funny,we gals jus have to manage and laugh so d wldnt luk lik fools.....But some gals r stupid and got alot of problem wit deir attitude so d deserve wat d get 4rm guys.....

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Permalink Reply by P Trilla on April 10, 2008 at 10:24pm

I AGREE ON EVERY COMMENT POSTED. SOMETIMES A GOOD TIME HAS TO GO BOTH WAYS. HONESTY IS KEY AND INTERGRITY IS A MUST AND THERE HAS TO BE OPEN COMMUNICATION SO EITHER PARTY WONT GET INTIMIDATED OR THINK THINGS THEY SHOULD OR LEAD ANOTHER PERSON ON? ADULTS CAN BE ADULTS ONCE YOU EACH THE POINT OF KNOWING WHAT WANT.
IF A PERSON HAS TO MUCH BAGGAGE OR DRAMA AND NOT HONEST THEN LET THE OTHER PERSON KNOW IF SOMEONE THINK THERE JUST ALL THAT AND REALLY NOT BE HONEST WITH THEM AND IF YOU CARE ABOUT A PERSON WHO DONT KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THEM THEN LET THE OTHER PARTY KNOW. FEMALES GET BORED BECAUSE FELLAZ BORED TO AND SOMETIMES WHEN YOUVE HAD ENOUGH WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT IF ANOTHER PERSON HAS NOT.

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